Women's Spring&Summer Solid Colour Loose High Waist Dresses

My measurements: Bust -108cm, waist circumference 106cm, hip circumference 116cm and I specifically ordered not XL, but 2 sizes larger - 3XL and it barely fastened across the chest, thankfully the style is such that it's loose in the hips, although your sizes indicate that 3XL, bust circumference 118 cm, but in reality -104 cm, what should I do now, it could be altered, but there's nowhere to take at least 6 cm from, although I hoped that according to the stated data it would be 118cm, and if it's washed, might it shrink even more?!!? Otherwise, I wanted exactly this style, but it turns out that you state incorrect data. What to do?

It fit my size 52, but it's a bit wide in the lower part, it looks better with a belt.